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13 Jul 2025

Living Simply

How to Simplify 101

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There is a common misconception that to simplify and lead a simple life is, basically, just cutting stuff out . . . living with nothing . . . leaving an emptiness or void. Not true.

A simple life is not seeing how little we can get by with—that’s poverty—but how efficiently we can put first things first . . . When you’re clear about your purpose and your priorities, you can painlessly discard whatever does not support these, whether it’s clutter in your cabinets or commitments on your calendar. —Victoria Moran, Lit From Within: Tending Your Soul For Lifelong Beauty

The whole purpose of simplifying is to (1) identify what is essential in your life—what you love and what you love to do—and then (2) eliminate the things that distract you and keep you from doing what’s important.

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We live in an age of abundance. We have so much stuff in our lives and so much going on, we get overloaded.

You know this is true. How many times have you said, I would love to [fill in blank], but I’m too busy . . . too tired . . . I don’t have the time?

I’m guilty of this myself. “I’m so busy I don’t have time to breath” is something I hear myself saying over and over. Time management would be a good skill for me to adopt; but even then, there aren’t enough hours in the day for me to do everything on my list. The solution? Cut the list. Determine what’s important and eliminate the rest.

Here’s how to start simplifying

  • Determine what is essential for your well-being and happiness.
  • Change priorities and values.
  • Reject, on some level, the busy, materialistic, super-sized culture we are all caught in.
  • Start small and tackle an area that will have the biggest impact.

When you eliminate the things that are not necessary—the visual and emotional clutter that complicates your life—you end up surrounded by and doing only the things you love.

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  1. Melanie Nied says

    Friday, September 6, 2019 at 11:34 AM

    Hi…this is Melanie and it is crazy how I found you. I had a memory come up on a rental in Tennessee that is so me!!! It is called The Nest from Shelter and Root. I clicked on the memory to see the house again and somehow it got to your page. From there I decided to check your page further. I was drawn to it by your wanting to simplify your lives. I have gained some good thoughts for myself as I feel very much as you. Your page is awesome. As I got ready to close out and was scrolling down, I find that you are from Findlay, Ohio. And my husband and I live in Maumee, Ohio. Anyway. I will be following you on Facebook and your blog. Keep up living life. It’s too short not to.
    Melanie Nied

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    • Patricia says

      Sunday, September 8, 2019 at 9:23 AM

      Thank you for taking the time to write. I’m glad to found Our Empty Nest, and sincerely appreciate your kind comments. It’s always so satisfying to hear from like-minded people. Stay tuned. We’re in the middle of a whole-house remodel, and I’ll be adding more to the website just as soon as the dust settles. I hope you have a chance to visit often. Again, thanks for writing!

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